A message from Pittsburgh Chapter Chair, Santina Balestreire to all our members and friends.
It is with the
greatest regret that I have to write this message to our community. On Tuesday,
January 28 after a complicated heart surgery we lost our Fearless Leader, Thom
Harding. I am sure he is dancing into the pearly gates as I write this message
with a big smile on his face with a glass of Montepulciano d’Abruzzo at hand.
We are so lucky to have had Thom share his love of wine and
wine making with us. He was a passionate man with an infectious smile and a
sparkle in his eye that let you know that no matter what the subject of
conversation was, he had a story to tell you and it was going to be a good one.
The last post on the blog was one that he posted, he was the
curator of the American Wine Society Pittsburgh Chapter’s blog for a long time and it was his
baby. He loved to talk in depth about the subject of the next wine tasting and
to educate participants before they showed up to the Evergreen Community
Center. In his last post, he talked
about wine words and how to sound sophisticated even if you aren’t. Thom knew a lot about a lot of things, but he
always made you feel like you were an expert too. This was why so many people knew him and
called him a friend. He knew how to make
you feel at ease with something you may not be familiar with. This is a rare
gift.
In the spirit of sharing stories, here is one about Thom. I
never had the opportunity to take formal dance lessons from him, but was able
to receive instruction from him at our Chapter’s holiday party a few years back
at Treesdale Country Club. If you were stumbling over the steps he was
teaching, (as I was) he would swoop in and make you feel like you were half way
decent at dancing, with a smile and twinkle in his eye of course.
If you know Thom, and think about him, inevitably a smile will
be on your face instantaneously. This is all any of us can hope for when people
think of us.
Let’s follow our Fearless Leader’s example and make people smile
by including them in our conversations and sharing a great story.
If you wish to join us in sharing your stories of Thom, life in general or your passion for wine, please join
us at an upcoming wine tasting.
If you wish to pay your respects to his family in person,
details can be found in the obituary: https://www.legacy.com/obituaries/postgazette/obituary.aspx?pid=195214021